Slowly slowly as good days passed, hardest ones arrived. Three deaths and earning a bagful of silence later, we started sleeping again, or may be not. But mind does not change as of yet.
Because Ruts don’t dig themselves.
Most of the time, we’re in a rut because that’s precisely where we put ourselves.
Out of many, some actions become habits, and habits get repeated because they feel safe.
The easiest way to make things more interesting is to simply stop repeating your habitual behavior.
And that often comes from reacting to triggers. Remove the triggers and you can alter the habits.
Tiny changes. Different ways to keep score.
Tomorrow comes daily. But we don’t have to take the same route to get there.
So true Narayan. We are so happy in our so called routine or comfort zone, that most of us just exist and are not alive to the moments of life.
Hope the dark days have passed. Take care.
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Radhika, yes and you know i feel there is always that curve, that moment, that accident which arrives as a signal, as pre cursor so as to warn. These are times of achieving supreme awareness.
Thank you for writing Radhika.
Narayan
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Inspiring. I am awed looking at the ways you approach life and situations.
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Ramya, how have you been? Thank you for writing. You are most kind. I have been following your writings too, and your brilliant sketches on the most important essay by dearest Joanna. Thank you. You are as inspiring.
Narayan
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i love you Narayan, may all your days be blessed, and all the people you meet helped. May all the goodness of your travels bring much joy and goodness to you. greetings from Australia.
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❤️️ gary taking my heart away every time. The purest blessings is you receive your words. The blessing is you. So much love. Narayan
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Fabulous read. The title is attractive and speaks so much.
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Thank you Kritika, lovely to have you, your words. Narayan.
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Welcome 😊
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I also love the title, and it could, no, it will become an established saying, Your wisdom, my dear Narayan, illuminates the truth and is compelling in its clear, yet urgent message, we should change our ingrained habits to do better in life.
TOMORROW COMES DAILY -poignant, eye-catching, intelligent. Thank you.
Joanna
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How is it possible that the one herself tells me she didn’t have words. You are becoming a language yourself. This essay was an eruption more than an expression dearest. Also that i couldn’t write for long, this seemed enough to dive in again.
Narayan
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Hey, thank Roger but no, thanks.
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“Ruts don’t dig themselves.”
Indeed. I so appreciate your reminder in this lovely post.
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❤️️ Rebecca. Thank you.
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Narayan, thank you for this deep and wise article. Loving the title ” tomorrow becomes daily”, so much truth in it, if we cling to our daily habits we are so called safe, but we miss out on so many opportunities that may add more to brighten our horizon and open other doors we never have thought about. Have a blessed rest of the week.
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Cornelia, we know it right, we live it but just wear out so much out of living, caring for ones we love and somewhere lose ourselves in it.
Hope you are doing things happily. Lovely to have you along. Narayan
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I needed this practical dose of positivity and it’s as if you read my mind, to provide me peace and self-assurance. Thank you Narayan.
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Prithvi thanks friend. Hope you are doing well there, year’s almost over 🙂 Happy Deepawali to you.
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Happy Diwali to you too. May your words continue to illuminate our lives.
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Thanks. That’s so kind of you. I have been good.
Take care!🤗
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Thanks Ramya, Wishing you a colourful and filled with light Deepawali.
Narayan
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Thank you and wish you the same!🙂
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I love that line ‘ruts don’t dig themselves’ .
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🙂 Yes, sometimes lines stand in front as eyes looking in ours. Thank you.
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Another great post! Thank you!
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So long Kirana, i hope you have been doing things happily.
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Habits are great for things like saying, “Thank you” and brushing your teeth. But a life lived by habit alone would be boring indeed! Great post, Narayan! ❤
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🙂 very boring indeed dearest Cheryl, very.
❤
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It sis often so easy to stay in the bottom of a rut that we fail to remember how great the view is form the rim of the rut. Stay well. Allan
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🙂 Yes so true. many a times we dont even recognise that we are in one, when one someone does come to not probably hurt, but reveal the truth.
Thanks Allan. Lovely to hear from you again.
Narayan
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I am hoping that our move will get us both out of any ruts we were in and help us to live a healthier lifestyle. Thanks for the reminders, Nara.
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Marsha, i hope so too. As much as write it out of experiences but it always seems once is not enough, yet when ever i read this essay again i hope to keep making use of it in my own life.
Thank you so much for being here. Looking forward to leave a note on your site soon.
Narayan
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A wise and an inspiring piece..!
Well executed one🙂🧡
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Like wise and inspiring you. Your blog is filled with life, contemplation and that little spark where you just pass all the tides and currents of the ocean. Akshita, thank you.
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This is a very great honour. I so much thank you for these kind words. And so is your blog, lively and always with something new and refreshing🥰
I accept your words with gratitude here. Thank you so much.
Sending all the good vibes your way. Stay safe and cherry🌸
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Pleasure Ankita and again cant thank you enough. ❤️️ to you. Narayan
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I think you spelt the name wrong 😅, its AKSHITA.
I appreciate your thanks. Sending much love back🙂❤
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arrey, this auto spell check, in my mind i have always called you Akshita. Please erase this mistake, and only smile. Love is well received dearest ❤
Narayan x
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Hahah, that’s okay Narayan.😅
Much love your way❤
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Leaving yesterday’s rut is simple good advice, even for we elderly. An hour’s walk on a new path tomorrow, shall invigorate far more, that repeating today’s track.
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haha, dearest Marlee, thank you for your lovely appearance of simple good assertion of leaving everything of yesterday to yesterday. Apologies for writing this late. While going through your wonderful, descriptive and educative blog i learnt about your book ‘Double Genealogy’. Many congratulation to you. It looks an important read. I will certainly come over and spend time knowing more about it and other works there are on the site.
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And thank you again, accept my wishes dear Marilee.
Narayan
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Thank YOU. I am enjoying your blog.
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Its a pleasure to read these words. You know how important to know that you are feeling words. You are enjoying dear Marilee. Please accept my gratitude and wishes.
Narayan x
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Tomorrow comes daily. But we don’t have to take the same route to get there. — Indeed. I marvel at the way you state profound truths in such a simple way bringing a new perspective to something anyone can see but often misses. Thank you!
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Thanks dear Cybenag. Been sometime. Hope everyone’s at home are happy about the new year arrival 🙂
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Yes, Thank you. I save your posts to read at leisure because they need to be assimilated and not just ‘read’. That is how I have commented on such an old post of yours 🙂
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And Thank you again.
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So simple yet very meaningful.
Good to read your blogs after a long time.
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Thank you, it’s pleasing to have you around. Be around.
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